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Ms Vanessa Answers the Cucks

Mistress Vanessa — Tue, 18 Nov 2008 04:03:36 +0000

It’s been fun answering questions from various sissies and wankers. I hope my readers have learned a few things as well. This week we will be concentrating on one of my favorite groups . . . CUCKOLDS! Yes, I will be answering questions from the cuckies. I was going to limit the scope of my Q & A sessions but in the upcoming weeks, I plan to open the floor to other fetishes. Stay tuned!

Now on to some questions!

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I’m not a freak or anything but my wife is cheating on me. Why?

Why is the sky blue? Why is piss yellow? Are you serious? There are several basic reasons that your wife would be cheating on you. The most common reason is because the husband has a small penis. I’d bet money that I don’t have that you fall into this category. Another reason could be an erectile dysfunction. Small cocks are no fun. Limp dicks are no fun either. Then there is the multitude of non penis related reasons such as: you stink, you are boring, you suck, you are ugly etc. Pick one of the reasons.

But seriously, isn’t it pretty self evident that if your WIFE is cheating on you . . . you either have some sort of serious deficiency or your wife is a slut. There is no way around it. The best thing for you to do is to make peace with the situation. You do want to stay with her, right? Obviously your dick and/or your dick action just isn’t cutting it for her. So sorry for you.

Ms Vanessa Answers more Stroker Questions

Mistress Vanessa — Sat, 15 Nov 2008 02:50:17 +0000

It’s time to answer some questions from my readers and callers! I’d like to thank the sissies for asking such *cute* questions and the strokers and wankers for asking me such provocative questions. I haven’t addressed any questions from the cuckold segment but I promise I will. Let’s open up the mail bag and see what kind of questions we have today!

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Hello to whom it may concern, I have a very small penis. It’s 2.5 inches fully erect. I find that it is difficult to masturbate and I wondered if you might have any suggestions as to how I could make my masturbatory experiences better. I hear that you are a skilled masturbatrix so I figured you were the one to ask. Respectfully, “John.”

Before we delve into creative ways to pleasure a pseudo-penis, let’s rule out a few suspicious problems. Could it be possible that you have E.D. (erectile dysfunction?) The reason I ask is because I have a hard time believing that that your “fully erect” penis measures a mere two and a half inches. I have a feeling that you might be pulling my leg because it is incomprehensible that a full grown man would have a “fully erect” penis measuring 2.5 inches. Pray tell, how little is it when you aren’t “fully erect?”

But if you truly do have the disability that you have described, then the only things I could suggest is 1) Masturbate as thought you are a female; rub not stroke. 2) If it is difficult to “grasp” or wrap your fist around your “fully erect” member, then try humping a soft inanimate object such as a pillow or bundled up blankets.

Ms Vanessa Has Q & A with cock stroking wanker boys

Mistress Vanessa — Wed, 12 Nov 2008 02:47:51 +0000

As some of you may have noticed, I’ve started to compile some of the questions posed to me by my readers and callers. I swear some of you have some of the most interesting questions! Last week I concentrated on answering questions from sissies. This week I will focus more on the stroker boys and see what types of questions are on their minds. I’m thinking that next week or the week after, Ms Vanessa will tackle the cuckold questions. So let the interrogation begin!

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Hello Goddess, I’ve been a stroker since my teens and I’m not a young man anymore. I remember my mother telling me that guys who masterbate a lot will go blind. I’m afraid that since I’m getting up there in age that I might go blind any day now. I can’t stop. Will you help me?

Sure I’ll be HAPPY to help you . . . that is what I’m here for. First and foremost, if you are going to do it so often . . . you should learn how to spell it correctly. It is m-a-s-t-u-r-b-a-t-e with a “u.” You are welcome. Second, why would you assume that your mother would lie to you? She is absolutely correct. It is just a matter of time before total and complete blindness kicks in. I bet you wear reading glasses, don’t you? See . . . the process is already starting. It is irreversible but you *can* do something to keep it from getting worse. The next time and EVERY time you wank, make a special “dildo” by dipping a big carrot into some tomato or spaghetti sauce. Stick this up your ass and VOILA! You can stop or at least slow down the blinding process. The extra benefit to this is that it will now be MORE pleasurable for you when you wank because the “dildo” will massage your prostate. See? Ms Vanessa *always* has an answer.

Ms Vanessa more Q & A with sissies

Mistress Vanessa — Fri, 07 Nov 2008 20:38:42 +0000

Once again I open the floor up for questions from my sissy, cuckold, and other various readers. This week I’ve been concentrating on the questions from sissies. Most of them are about cock sucking and cock sucking techniques which I have outlined in detail at Sissyville. All sissies should check out that site as it is chock full of information and instruction just for sissies.

And now on to some questions:

Ms Vanessa, is it wrong for me as a sissy to have more than 130 pairs of women’s shoes? I feel like a freak. Thanks for your time. Ivanka

As long as you are not the wife of an elected head of state to a third world country, I think that you aren’t under any moral obligation to have only one pair of shoes male or female. That being said . . . you are probably a freak for reasons other than owning more than 100 pairs (130 to be exact) of women’s shoes. The fact that you iron your panties, listen to ABBA, and still have 10 sided dice from your D&D playing days is much more reason to be concerned about your freakishness.

Dear Mistress Vanessa, I’ve tried everything to grow a pair of boobs but they still aren’t bigger than an A cup. Are there alternatives out there that will help me grow some boobies? Thank you. Shelly

Darling . . . I think you are working on flawed premise there. You haven’t tried *everything.* Because if you have tried *everything* . . . you would have tried getting a boob job. And after trying a boob job (breast augmentation for the jargon fetishists) and you still have an A cup . . . you need to go get your money back. Do like everyone else who doesn’t have money for boob surgery and buy a water bra. Keep it out of the dryer.

Ms Vanessa’s Sissy Q & A

Mistress Vanessa — Fri, 07 Nov 2008 02:53:24 +0000

Since I get so many questions from sissies, cuckolds, strokers, and others . . . I have decided to compile some of the questions that I get and share them with my readers. Some of the questions and answers might be enlightening and others might just be plain amusing. Of course asking Ms Vanessa is not a substitute for seeking professional help for serious issues. Now let’s answer some pressing and important sissy questions!

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Ms Vanessa, I’ve been a sissy cross dresser for a number of years now and I have not sucked any cock yet. Is part of being a sissy sucking cock?

I don’t think that the central issue here is you being a sissy or not. I believe that the *real* issue is if you are a fag or not. Since you are so concerned about cock sucking in your sissy regiment, I do believe that you have a bit of fag in you. Don’t mask the issue of your faggotry in your sissiness, accept it, make peace with it, then embrace it and go out and be the best sissy fag that you possibly can.

I was wondering if you could tell me Ms Vanessa if pink is the only acceptable color for sissies. Thank you for your time ma’am.

In my humble opinion . . . well . . . not so humble opinion, sissies can wear more colors than pink. For instance, what if you are in a slutty mood? Wouldn’t your whole purpose be to find a man? I don’t think that pink necessarily inspires passion. In those times you should wear black or red. Also, sissies on punishment should wear gray. It’s such an ugly drab color . . . perfect for punishing a misbehaving bad, bad sissy girl.

Foot boy turns into a sissy -The conclusion

Mistress Vanessa — Tue, 04 Nov 2008 20:01:36 +0000

Ethan could hardly believe the immensely pleasurable sensations that he was feeling. My feet stroking his cock through the soft satin panties made him want to release in an explosive orgasm right then and there. But he knew the rules . . . the Mistress is the one with the cock control. He merely had physical possession of the member. So he held it back . . . as painful and as frustrating as it was.

So I tell him in a soft, soothing voice; “You know . . . good sissies get to cum. Would you like to be a good sissy for me?”

I could tell that there was some hesitation in his answer but Ethan slowly and deliberately nodded his head in affirmation. “Good.” I said. Then I told him to get up from his knees and stand in front of me. I wanted him to parade around and show me his inner girly girl.

His whole body blushed but he was motivated by the primal desire to cum. He got up and started walking around like a man. I told him that it was unacceptable and that he had to show me something “girly.” He started doing better, sashaying around and swinging his hips. His was able to maintain his erection partly because he found the humiliation so arousing.

Come here now and stoke my cock for me. He approached me eagerly. I instructed him to keep the panties on while he stroked. I wanted him to associate the panties with pleasure. It didn’t take long for him to release. Ethan felt so relaxed and content.

I believe that he will not resist wearing panties in the future.

Foot boy turns into a sissy part 3

Mistress Vanessa — Wed, 29 Oct 2008 16:18:23 +0000

Ethan looked confused and puzzled at the same time. Did he really hear me correctly? Did his Mistress actually expect him to put on her panties? Decisions, decisions. Do I put on the panties and continue to engage in blissful foot worship? Or do I try and salvage the remnants of my ego and pride and walk away?

The throbbing in Ethan’s cock was getting way too painful for him to just walk away without the hope of some kind of release. He sheepishly looked up at me and started to move his hands up to my panties. Gingerly, he started pulling it down my thighs . . . then my legs and hesitated when they were down to my ankles. I could tell that he was actually staring at my feet instead of keeping his attention on the task at hand. I tapped him on the back of the head to help him focus.

He finally got my panties off and started to put them on himself. He turned several shades of crimson but he managed to get them on. The humiliation he must have felt! What a sight it was! He quickly got back down on his knees and fell to my feet . . . mostly because of the “shame” of wearing panties for the first time. I used my big toe to caress his cheek as I told him; “See? It isn’t that bad, is it?”

He shook his head “no” and resumed kissing my foot. I used my other foot to rub against his rock solid erection through the panties. It was a sensation that he had never felt before. . .

To be continued . . .

Turning a foot boy into a sissy Part 2

Mistress Vanessa — Tue, 28 Oct 2008 18:25:48 +0000

Keeping in mind that the “big bad Ethan” had no desire or intention of becoming or even wanting to be a sissy, I stored that tidbit of information in my mental rolodex. Mistress never forgets *anything.* (So it would be advisable not to say anything to me that could come back and bite you in the ass.) I started teasing him with my feet: rubbing them on his thigh, his chest, up to his face and allowed him to take in my scent. I instructed him not to lick or kiss my feet just yet . . . I wanted to build up his yearning and lust for them.

I noticed that his cock was getting harder and the tell tale signs of arousal was beading at the opening of his cock. So I kept rubbing my feet all over his tone and hard body, teasing him, and denying him the pleasure of tasting me. After what seemed to him an eternity (but in actuality was about 20 minutes) I finally made my small request. “Reach up and take my panties off . . . them put them on yourself.”

He looked very confused. I had never asked for him to do anything of the sort. I imagine he either thought that he heard me incorrectly or that I was joking. So I repeated myself. I made sure that my demeanor conveyed that I was dead serious. It was either put the panties on and we will continue to play or don’t put the panties on and you will have to disengage and go home.

What will he choose?

To be continued . . .

Turning a foot boy into a sissy

Mistress Vanessa — Sat, 25 Oct 2008 03:26:38 +0000

I’ve confessed to you my fascination with those that worship my feet. I can’t personally see myself being the worshipper, but I do feel totally at home having my feet worshipped. It feels so natural to have someone on the floor in front of my lavishing attention to my feet. One of my most ardent foot worshippers is a tall, handsome, ultra masculine guy we will call “Ethan.”

Ethan is the typical type A, financial industry, white collar guy. He dresses immaculately and looks as though he belongs in a fashion magazine as a model. Oh . . . and did I mention the 6 pack on this boy? He has this preoccupation with feet. Okay, I’m putting it mildly. He has a big foot fetish. Looking at my feet gives Ethan an instantaneous hard on. Correction, I think he has a hard on as soon as he sees me because he *anticipates* being able to smell, touch, kiss, and lick my feet.

On one occasion while I was teasing him unmercifully with my feet . . . I decided that I would have a little bit more fun with him than I usually do. I got him aroused to the point where he would do *anything* for me to grant him a happy ending. So before I even entertained the notion of his release, I told him to wear a pair of my panties. He looked mortified. He let me know under no certain terms was he into being feminized or being a sissy. . .

To be contined!

The Psychology of Foot Boys and Foot Freaks

Mistress Vanessa — Wed, 22 Oct 2008 23:06:03 +0000

I often wonder about the mindset of those that choose . . .maybe choose isn’t the right word . . . those that feel compelled to worship feet . . . what are their motivations? Is it purely a sexual drive behind the pomp and circumstance of their intricate foot worship rituals? Is it because I’m a FemDom and that fact alone changes my feet from being merely feet but an object worthy of reverence? Or perhaps my feet (as opposed to other’s feet) are deemed by these individuals as aesthetically pleasing enough to merit worshiping? I’m sure it’s one or a combination of the above but I do wonder if. . .

They realize that *I* use my feet as a weapon in my arsenal to obtain results that I want. Sometimes I use them as a golden carrot as a reward for superior service and good behavior. “You may worship Mistress’ feet now.” Other times I use my feet as an instrument to conjure up submissive and humble feelings. “Get down on your knees and kiss my feet.” The most fun I have is when I arouse sexual feelings by using them. “You want to suck on my toes so badly, don’t you?”

This is the most fun for me because I believe that when a man is sexually aroused, he becomes more susceptible to suggestion and is a lot more malleable. Even a macho, super masculine man will be amenable to the suggestion of wearing panties (even if he has never done so before) when he is in this state of arousal. I have no scruples about using any and all of my assets to achieve mind control, cock control, or any other type of control.